Each one of us , would always like to be politically correct, prim and proper. Ever eager to hide ourselves in the garb of gentleness and goodness for others to appreciate and applaud.
What one fine day or at few opportune moments, we let go of our guard and for the rightest cause, hurl abusive words and let loose the torrential gates of anger ? That too in front of an audience.
SHOULD WE FEEL GUILTY OUR IMAGE HAS TAKEN A BEATING? OR DESPISE OURSELVES FOR BEING HUMAN?.
SHOULD WE ALWAYS CONDITION OURSELVES TO WITHDRAW &WRENCH FROM OUTPOURINGS GOOD OR BAD?
To my mind , ideally it is best to control our emotions for our own well being.
To shield ourselves from the outside world and try to be reticent and not expose ourselves to every sundry. But if a situation, when pushed to the brink , leashes the supressed anger and pain please do not mind at all “What will they think of us now? What about my impeccable mannerisms and image?
Please let go. The ones who know us will one hundred percent understand and empathize, the others will carry a tale. Who matters most for us is the deciding factor. The latter I care not. They never existed.
Rumour mongers, otherwise, too light the fire and spread smoke of confusion without any particular reason. Please ignore them.
To embrace ourselves truly, means to be in perfect synchronization of the good and the bad , the divine and the human, the anger and the serenity , the private and the public space within us.
Let’s not be too mindful of our mannerisms, they stifle and strangulate us . TO ERR IS HUMAN. PLEASE MOVE FEARLESSLY AND NOT PAY HEED TO THE WORLD AND IT’S WAYS. THEY HAVE NOT WALKED OUR JOURNEY. STATIONED AT AN IVORY TOWER THEY ARE UNAWARE OF OUR GRIND. AN ARMCHAIR ADVICE CAN ALWAYS BE OVERLOOKED.
PLEASE DO NOT JUSTIFY YOUR IMPLICIT OR EXPLICIT EMOTIONS. THEY ARE OURS TO STAY. NO EXPLANATIONS NEEDED.